This week, I am dipping my toe into waters that can be
troubled at times. This is something
that I do not do easily as it is against my nature to be controversial. However, sometimes that is where I am called
to journey.
Last Saturday, Lorna and I marched in what was the first Gay
Pride Parade that we have participated in.
This one marked the twenty-fifth Gay Pride Parade in Charlottetown, PEI,
so, it was an occasion we both wanted to participate in. We both found it to be a lot of fun and very
positive.
We joined the contingent of parishioners from St. Paul’s
Anglican Church in Charlottetown which has been represented in the parade for quite
a few years. Our participation was
welcomed by them and I felt quite at home as part of that group which was led
by Archdeacon John Clarke. I inquired
about the history of the parade and found out that the first one was more of a
protest rather than a parade, protesting unjust laws in Canada and PEI. I wasn’t able to find out much about the
first
parade/protest, however, I’m sure this year’s event was in sharp
contrast. There were approximately one
thousand people who marched in the parade with participants which seemed to cover
many aspects of life on PEI including community groups, businesses, political
parties including the newly elected Progressive Conservative Premier Dennis
King, and of course churches.
Police were included in the event, with the RCMP, who do
much of the policing on the Island, ensured things went smoothly for participants,
and traffic control on the streets was handled by the Charlottetown Police – a division
of duties that seemed to work well. I asked
Archdeacon John about the relationship between the Parade organizers and the
police and he informed me that it was a positive one. This is, unfortunately, different from the
relationship between the Pride Parade in Toronto and the police who have had a
less than positive relationship with the parade over the years.
The general atmosphere was one of joy and celebration with a
very positive feeling between those in the parade and the bystanders who lined
the route. There was no one along the route
who seemed to be in active opposition to the event. I’m sure this would have been a sharp
contrast to the parade twenty-five years ago.
I was very glad to have been part of the contingent from St.
Paul’s Church and equally glad that the participants of churches were welcomed
by the Parade organizers. The relationship
between organized religion and the Gay and Lesbian Community (as I first knew it)
or 2SLGBTQIA as they inclusively self-identify – has been
and continues to be a troubled one. The Anglican
Church of Canada continues to struggle with the issue of same-sex marriage/blessing. The national meeting, General Synod, recently
did not pass an amendment to the Marriage Canon (law) which would have included
same-sex couples. This failed by the slimmest
of margins passing with strong majorities in two of three houses of Laity and
Clergy but barely failing to reach the required two-thirds majority in the House
of Bishops. However, General Synod also
passed a motion which allowed for a “local option” for Dioceses to permit
same-sex marriage with the agreement of the Bishop. Perhaps this was the latest example of
Anglican middle way.
This continues to be trouble waters
and perhaps it is a case of a fool rushing in whether or not angels fear to
tread. To make my position clear, I have
strongly supported enabling same-sex couples to marry both civilly and in the
church based on many years of knowing gay and lesbian people and their
struggles to live full and fulfilled and God-filled lives in our culture. Same sex marriage has been allowed civilly in
Canada since 2005 and the results of this has been, in my view, very positive
for those involved and for the country. It
is indeed still an issue which generates strong feelings on all sides of the
issue. My hope and prayer is that we in
the Anglican Church and beyond can strive to “disagree in love” as our just
retired Primate (head of the Canadian Church), Archbishop Fred Hiltz called for
us to do. Perhaps if we take this approach,
we can find that bridge over those troubled waters that Paul Simon and Art Garfunkel sang about
so beautifully.
Blessings on your journey