Showing posts with label Secular Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Secular Christmas. Show all posts

Monday, 1 January 2024

Yes Virginia, It's Still Christmas

                              

This is my reflection on Christmas which I delivered at the church service yesterday: 


Merry Christmas!  I am sure that none of you were surprized that I wished you a Merry Christmas.  We are in the middle of the season of  Christmas in the church year, celebrating the first Sunday after Christmas. However, many people who are unfamiliar with this season of Christmas in the church year would be surprized and perhaps puzzled that we were doing so.  They might look on such a greeting as something given by someone who has been out of touch for the past week – perhaps being a week late in giving such a greeting.

 

We are living in a time in which there are two types of Christmases – well, there are probably many, but I want to talk about the two approaches to celebrating Christmas in our culture.  We have the religious celebration which we are taking part in today.  The other celebration of Christmas is what I call the secular Christmas.  This Christmas has many ways of identifying it which I am sure you are familiar with.  The celebration of the secular Christmas begins in the fall.  It is marked by Christmas carols being played in malls and stores and even in social media.  We have adds featuring that saint of the secular Christmas, Santa Claus, encouraging us to buy, buy, buy the perfect gift for our loved ones.  It is, in effect, a celebration of materialism.  The secular Christmas is about spending money which we can’t really afford to give gifts, gifts, gifts in the spirit of that Christmas.    Santa Claus is, as I say, the saint of this Christmas – but it is a secular saint.  Now, this saint is based on a true saint – St. Nicholas. Saint Nicholas is the patron saint of sailors, merchants, archers, repentant thieves, children, brewers, pawnbrokers, unmarried people, and students in various cities and countries around Europe.


His reputation evolved among the pious, as was common for early Christian saints, and his legendary habit of secret gift-giving gave rise to the modern model of Santa Claus.  However, our modern image of Santa Claus – that jolly, fat man in a red fur lined suite, smoking a pipe is, appropriately, based more on a commercial – a commercial for the coca cola company.  After all, who wouldn’t want a nice cold coke after a hectic day of buying presents for loved ones and friends and even our bosses.  There is some magic connected with Santa Claus.  He is able to appear in many places at once – indeed in countless department stores and other such places where the focus is on buying things.  He appears in these venues after the many parades in his honour in countless cities and towns.  These are the official start of the secular Christmas season and they occur even before the beginning of Advent in the sacred calendar. 

 

Another symbol of the secular Christmas is the Christmas Tree.  Now this symbol is shared with the sacred Christmas.  But you can tell the difference because it often appears early in conjunction with the beginning of the secular Christmas and often you can see them put out for collection of Boxing Day.  Prince Albert, Queen Victoria's consort, is usually credited with having introduced the Christmas tree into England in 1840. However, it was actually 'good Queen Charlotte', the German wife of George III, who set up the first known tree at Queen's Lodge, Windsor, in December 1800. 

 

So, what about the other Christmas – the sacred one?  What are the elements that make up this Christmas and make it different from the secular one?  If you are a purist and want to observe a traditional holy Christmas there are a number of things you should and shouldn’t do. 

 

This Christmas actually begins on Christmas Eve – the evening of December 24th.  You don’t begin singing Christmas Carols until Christmas Eve to welcome the birth of the Christ Child.  Christmas trees shouldn’t actually be in place and decorated before that.  The Christ Child and not Santa Claus is the centre and focus of this Christmas.  Rather than a frenzy of gift buying, we have the season of Advent in which we prepare for the birth of the Christ Child on Christmas Day – it is the mass of Christ – the birth of Christ. 

 

The sacred Christmas lasts for – can you guess – twelve days.  From Christmas Day until Epiphany with the arrival of the Wise Men.  Epiphany has its own season in the church year.  Many people - even those who celebrate only the secular Christmas, are familiar with the twelve days of Christmas because of the playful carol by that name.   Today is the seventh day of Christmas – so you could be giving your true love – any guesses?  You can give them seven swans a swimming.  (sing the song back to the first day). 

 

Now, a gift of seven swans and many of the other gifts in that song are completely impractical.  I certainly don’t know what I would do with seven swans if my true love Lorna gave them to me.  I might appreciate five gold rings but what could I do with ten lords a leaping or eight maids a milking – I don’t own even one cow.  

 

 As with the song, trying to strictly follow a sacred Christmas is impractical and unrealistic and I am not suggesting that you try to do it.  As much as I appreciate the celebration of the sacred Christmas, I certainly embrace some things of the secular one.  I enjoy singing carols and enjoyed the service of Lessons and Carols we had here two weeks ago. 

I am glad to exchange gifts with Lorna on Christmas morning and many of the other things that we Christians share with the secular Christmas.  I believe that we should enjoy all of Christmas – both Christmases - but in doing so we should not lose sight of the true meaning of Christmas – the birth of the Christ Child – Jesus Christ was born – on Christmas Day - which historically was not December 25th -but Christians have always been incorporating non-Christian times and symbols in our celebration.  Let us continue to do that but not forget the reason for the season – to use a cliché.  Love came down at Christmas and we Christians are called to share that love – the Love of Jesus Christ with the world.  Amen  


Happy New Year and to all a good year. 

Tuesday, 28 November 2023

Preparing for Advent

 We are about to begin the season of the church year which seems to be overwhelmed by secularism i.e. the Secular Christmas.  That would be the season of Advent which is a time to prepare for the coming of the Christ Child.  Christmas seems to be in full swing now with Christmas carols playing in the stores and Santa Claus parades in every corner of the land. 

I am proposing something which is probably way out in left field (to use a secular metaphor).  I am proposing that we spend a bit of time preparing for Advent.  In case you are wondering, Advent begins this coming Sunday.  We will be lighting the first candle in the Advent Wreath.  I also hope we will be singing some Advent carols – yes there are actually Advent carols such as O Come O Come Emanuel; or, Lo How a Rose E’er Blooming.   

So, what does it mean to prepare for the season of preparation?  The first thing is to understand, as best we can, what Christmas is actually about.   For me this is best summed up by the carol, Love Came Down at Christmas by Christina Rossetti.  Here are the lyrics:

  1. Love came down at Christmas,
    Love all lovely, Love divine;
    Love was born at Christmas,
    Star and angels gave the sign.
  2. Worship we the Godhead,
    Love incarnate, Love divine;
    Worship we our Jesus:
    But wherewith for sacred sign?
  3. Love shall be our token,
    Love be yours and love be mine,
    Love to God and all men,
    Love for plea and gift and sign.

Here is the link for a beautiful reedition of the carol, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1UodfFV3A3M

You may be protesting that I am doing just what I object to – jumping over Advent directly to Christmas with this carol.  However, what I am trying to show is that the essence of Christmas is love.  To get ready to prepare for Christmas we must prepare to welcome love within us.  We cannot be ready to receive the love that is born in a stable in Bethlehem unless we begin to truly love ourselves.  That is easier said than done. 

How do we, then, begin to do that?  I received a missive from Kathleen Wiley, a wise person who spoke about the qualities of love proposed by Erich Fromm in The Art of Loving. According to Wiley, Fromm states these are giving, care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge.  When I read this, I had not planned to connect this to Advent but that seems to be where the spirit has taken me this morning. 

What I would like to do is to explore each of these themes during Advent to see what they mean when applied to loving ourselves.  At this point, I am not sure what this idea will reveal as I have not tried to do this before.  So, I am very interested to see what this will reveal as I journey through Advent.  So, with this, I am preparing for the Advent season.  I hope you will join me.

Blessings